I know what you mean April you get into an arguement and in your head you start thinking it’s my body that’s getting poked, proded, examined to within an inch of your life, medications that you can only understand if you have been there (I have named some of mine witch pills just to warn my husband!!). We do forget about the husbands and my husband did what yours did and wrote his feelings out in a card so when I start going off in that direction he just hands me the card and I stop and think. But more focus should be put on our parents. My mom and dad have been so supportive, helpfull and a sorce of strength. We should recognize that it can’t be easy for our parents especially the mom’s to watch their “little gir” go through such a “rough” time. Remember to every once in a while remind them that you are ok and that the outcome will be so worth it. My parents could light up the room with their eyes just at the mention of Josh and huge smiles are on their faces just talking about Dr. Kiltz and the clinic. So…keep on going, stay as together as you can and remember nobody can understand what you are going through if they don’t know about it, so share your stories you never know who you will help!!!!!

Love,
The MOM